They deserve a life!

I am Alesia, I think you know me already: I am fighting for my life, for my each and every breath, remember? and I am 23:50/7 ventilator dependent. Returning home from the hospital once becoming ventilator dependent for people like myself (younger or older) is considered an utopia in my beautiful country: Romania. The main reasons for this may be the poverty, a not ideally organized medical system (if you allow me this expression) that is always blaming the poverty and probably the subject awareness.

The parents or the caregivers once they learn that their child, wife, husband will not be able to breath by them self this practically means in 90% of the cases that they are convicted to live all the remaining life in an hospital ICU, which in my opinion is not the ideal place to spend your childhood.

My parents faced the same concerns 1 year ago when I was in the ICU:

• There is not any infrastructure to allow home care for ventilator dependent patients
• It is not possible emergency transportation because most of ambulances are not equipped with respiratory ventilators
• There is nobody that could (formally) train the caregivers
• There is NO help from medical insurance companies to obtain required medical equipment
• There is no home-care/nursing service for this type of patients (ventilator dependent)

In this condition there are very few people in this situation could return home.

I want to change this! There are so many children that are waisting their childhood in the hospital. They have done nothing wrong and they are fighting (the same as myself) for their each and every breath.

They deserve a LIFE!

My daddy had the oportunity to present my story as one of the only 2 families in Bucharest that could have a life outside Hospital ICU for a child with my condition. The presentation was made in front of some very well known medical doctors and representative from national medical insurance company.

Conclusions:

• Everybody was impresed by our story
• We have to continue to rise awarrenes about this subject
• We will have to create a well documented project to present as many cases as possible
• We will have to include in this project the economical advantages for this type of approach - Home care
• I hope I will have support from all medical doctors to obtain this information
• I hope I am not to small to succed

Here is the prsentation made:

or a link to the Romanian version

Love y'all

AAA

Nice walk, not to far from home

I just can wait each and every weekend because I know that mommy and daddy are taking me out in the sun....not to far from home because we are still afraid that something may go wrong with all the equipment, and moreover I like the trees and the flowers and the people from UPB campus where my mommy is working.

Happy 4th US friends!

AAA

My first rainbow....

You can not see this things inside the house! I saw the sun setting, I saw a beautiful rainbow, I heard some thunders, I liked running with really high speed in my stroller and then...Ops...the rain started, but I was already in the car! hi hi hi...let it rain now!

My First Rainbow

My new tube, it is green and I fit in....

We have finally found a tube that I fit in and is light enough to bring it in my room. This way I do not have to move with ventilator and all the equipment inside the house just to do a bath. I can watch cartoons while "swimming".

It seems that the water release my hands...and my legs....check it out:

My new tube, it is green and I fit in.

I was thinking today that I should be ready for school

I was thinking today.....Hmmm, usually my mommy is reading me stories, and she can read on and on and on as long as I want to.....and I like to listen, it couldn't be that hard to read them, right? Probably I should try someday? Yes, right, I should......and she also helps me drawing because my hand does not always listen to me...What if my hand would be a lot more easier?...

Some of the activities today ... I should be ready for school!

Position, position, position, compensate, limits, limited, limitations

Today, again about positioning....This is important because my muscles are soooo weak and I am forced to stay flat most of the time. This seems (and it is) painful, frustrating and there are a lot of complications coming from this limitation, just to mention some of them: joint contractures, intestinal transit issues, bone density issues, wrong perspective on the world when I am supposed to learn and experience so much about it...and the list can go on and on.

My parents are trying (limited by their knowledge (which is limited :) and not only) to compensate some of these complications. As I do not have a stander, and given the price for a stander I most likely never have one, my Jazz Easys stroller seems to be good for this purpose - with some limitations though:

• The maximum elevation angle is 45 degree
• Would be good to have proper trunk, hips support
  
• Would be good to have a proper mechanism to keep the knees straight (or almost) and the feet in the right position
  

But, with all these limitations, I seem to like very much my new position, new perspective and my improvised positioning device and I could stand at 40-45 degrees without problems for more than 30 minutes. Tomorrow again, maybe a little longer and I hope this will improve my life.

Alesia - a new perspective


Alesia - a new perspective - the movie
You will probably notice that I know how to say my name (Ana). There is no trach that can stop me from talking!

Love y'all
AAAna

Yet another sunny day outside with mommy and daddy

Do you like my improvised tent?

What about my "love tent"?

That's my girl!

Can somebody please stop me from eating her?

Nice weather, nice walk and new pics

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Fun equation today

Fun equation today:

Alesia + swing/mom & dad = fun 4 today

Check out movie below (Note. that I am off the ventilator while in the "swing"):

Swing day!

Good night Sun, please come back tomorrow!

My parents rediscovered my baby car seat that was not really used for its original purpose. It is now very good to keep me in sitting position for couple minutes per day. Only couple of minutes and no longer because I am getting tired pretty quick. We used the "couple minutes" today to watch the sun go down to sleep, to tell him "good night" and we asked him very nice to come back tomorrow because we will want to go outside for a new trip.

Good night Sun! Please come back tomorrow!

Almost flying, almost free and ... happy

We are trying to keep Alesia close to vertical position as much as possible. There are a lot of complication that arise from staying too long in lying position and in the same time we may get a lot of benefits from keeping her in standing position as much. This is not easy because she can not swallow yet and we have to be very careful with the secretions not go on the wrong way while vertical. It would be good to have stander to help with positioning (correct positioning) but...we do not have a company close to us (in Romania) that will sell this equipment and that could give us some advices and the possibility for a trial. While we have access to a lot of presentations and movies and information about this products we do not know how to chose it to be good for Alesia based only on this.

While we are searching for a stander, Alesia is using daddy as a "stander", in several episodes of a couple minutes each with or without ventilator. It is far more fun without ventilator because she can fly around the room .... almost free!!!

Almost flying, almost free and ... happy

Roses, Botanical Garden and ....Ducks

It was a great sunny and very hot Sunday that called for a walk outdoor . Since we can not go very far from home we went today in our Botanical Garden. We could see a lot of flowers and trees in one place, I couldn't climb on the trees yet but I had a little nap in the middle of a roses field instead.

There was a lot of people visiting the garden today and we haven't been in a such public place since we got the trach and the ventilator. There is such strange feeling when people are looking at you with compassion or simply curiosity and I am thinking for myself .... and now out loud: Alesia will have to be really strong, probably much stronger than us to face this looks later on.

But some of the looks came with funny comments from little visitors refering to our stroller and the ventilator:

"- Dady, Dady look they have a stroller with radio!
- It is not a radio and I told you not to speak that loud....
"

I will be strong!

Love y'all
AAA

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Pictures at Botanical Garden

A Peaceful Nap in the Sun

...I do not like to sleep at all, but today the sun was so warm, the wind so soft and I think the birds where singing a sweet melody that made me sleep for a couple of minutes...It was such a beautiful May Sunday with a lot of sun and fun I will surely have something to dream about tonight!

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Sunny Sunday

Love'all
AAA

A loooot of sun and joy because.....

I had today a lot of fun and joy because the weather was so nice today (Thank You God!) and I could go out for a walk in the sun for almost 2 hours. This is huge for me! I could see the trees, the birds, flowers, peoples running around, the blue blue sky and I will now know what colors to choose when I am coloring with mommy, I could feel the wind, the sun gently touching my hands and my face...I could......so many things that are simple and beautiful and we should be happy that we have them everyday for free...without any effort.

Look at the pictures below and tell me how do I look with the sun glasses borrowed from my friend doctor Cristian Tanase, with Texas flag bandanna, surrounded by love and all the equipment that may look scary but made this walk possible and is keeping me alive until the Miracle will happen.

Today's adventure

Love to y'all
AAA

Riding the Pink Unicorn

Everything went well lately. I am enjoying my toys and I am waiting for the Miracle to happen. Probably I am dreaming now .... I must be dreaming because pink unicorn does not exist .... and when I will wake up I will run and I will ride a white horse.

Love you all,

AAA

Hristos a Inviat! - Happy Easter 2009

Adevarat a Inviat!
AAA

Having fun with mommy

Besides reading and commenting story books with mommy hours after hours after hours until my mommy says "no more! let's do something else", watching movies one after another after another, drawing again and again and again I like solving puzzles. Check out the videos below... well, it might be a puzzle for you too because mommy is talking romanian.

Solving animal puzzle with mommy


Reading stories with mommy

I am telling you a secret: I love my mommy, I can not stand a second without her, she makes me happy.